My boyfriend touched me with his penis in that area and it hurt and there was blood. he did not go in at all. but I would like to know what this means and why there was blood?
|Q||My boyfriend touched me with his penis in that area and it hurt and there was blood. he did not go in at all. but I would like to know what this means and why there was blood?|
Dearest, please run to the doctor as soon as you read this. He DID "go in," whatever he said, and you need to see a doctor. Please know that even without complete penetration you are in danger of pregnancy and/or a sexually transmitted disease. Those sperm can swim rather powerfully right into you and take up residence and you could be carrying a child.
This is why it is so dangerous to get into circumstances where a man's penis can get close to your vagina, because it is such a happy home for sperm and egg to meet! I would say that your "boyfriend" took advantage of your lack of understanding and literally went beyond what he told you. (Of course, he may not have been completely knowledgeable either.) I wouldn't really call him a friend myself and I would get to a doctor. Talk with your mom too. You may feel afraid, but you've got more to fear than your mother!
I don't need to tell you that what you have experienced was more than a mistake. It was also a moral mistep. Don't add to it through lying or not caring for the life that might be growing within you. God loves you before, during and after your human failures. Ask for divine guidance as you move on from this learning moment. I hope all turns out well for you.